How Not To Host the Perfect Dinner Party 🙅🏻♀️
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The other night, seven pieces of sushi, sparkling water, and a cover charge set me (actually my wife) back 52 euros. Not Jiro. Just a regular dinner spot in Milan.
In a parallel life, I could have been sitting at a White House state dinner, the kind interrupted by a killer threat, guests spilling out onto the street, maybe ending up in front of a 7-Eleven at midnight (there's a picture of that!).
Two dinners. One of them clearly more absurd than the other.
I have my suspicions about which one.
Piero
✹Bruce Springsteen, Dancing in the Dark. Just got a cooking angle.
Food notes from a friend
A cookbook that doubles as an emotional memoir. Steafel weaves recipes, essays, and strong opinions about supermarket cheddar into a manifesto on the one question that never goes away: what's for dinner? Funny, warm, and honest about what food really means — which is never just food. The blurb on the cover is British gold: "You'll want a copy for the kitchen and another one to keep by your bed".
But First, Dinner: Food for Our Real Lives by Eleanor Steafel
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The shape of taste, the taste of shape
I also was at the launch of a new mysterious pasta format. There, one question stayed with me: does shape change how we experience food?
Apparently, yes.
Humans consistently rate round, organic shapes as more pleasant than angular ones. In research by Charles Spence at Oxford, participants associated curved shapes with sweetness - and sharp ones with bitterness. Shape influences expectation. Expectation shapes perception. And perception is taste, at least in part.
This shows up everywhere: a round bowl makes food taste less salty than a square plate. A curved chocolate feels creamier than an identical sharp-edged one.
Chefs have known this intuitively for decades. The best contemporary kitchens have turned it into practice: biomimicry applied to texture and plating.
A few examples: spherification works because a perfect sphere mimics a berry, a fish egg. The brain trusts it. Handmade pasta irregularities are perceived as richer than machine-cut equivalents, even with the same recipe. Smear plating echoes geological strata, natural erosion. It signals complexity before the fork lands.
The new pasta I saw is engineered, but arrives at an organic result. The whole experience feels more generous. Shape, then, doesn't just deliver food. It tells a story and the brain listens before the tongue does.
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A Food Bucket List: Dishes From Around the World You Should Try
Ligaya Mishan / T Magazine
Sour cream porridge with smoked reindeer heart. Scorched rice. Braised fish head with scallion. Ligaya Mishan, a chief restaurant critic for The New York Times, shares her list of plates from Oslo to Singapore that she thinks people should endeavor to try.
The science of hosting the perfect dinner party
Clarissa Brincat / Popular Science
Guest list, plate color, music tempo, cutlery weight — there's research behind all of it. A neuroscientist breaks down what actually shapes how people experience a meal together. Spoiler: avoid bitter food and black plates.
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